This is it. The immediate family at a  picnic hosted by the one at the right. Left to Right, and top to bottom.... Bob ("Nappy Pappy"), a typical Engineering type, according to his wife and friends. Brian, a  married, soon to be software engineer, trained by the Air Force to break up and/or incite bar fights. Dot ("Momma Whoop"), the most worthy of the bunch, retired,  having nursed both professionally and for free. James, an unmarried  Neurobiology graduate who now chases man-made viruses in the Cornell network wilds. AND        The family has expanded now including..... Heather, a lovely lass who follows in Dot's footsteps, having married a VanEe (Brian), and become a Registered Nurse. AND also includes.... Erik, ("The Viking", "The Sex God"), a person, related primarily through mental illness, who spent most of his long ago high school career sleeping overnight on my couch.